Li Qingping called his mother to feed water .Every half hour to help
elderly people to turn over ,every hour for the old man to replace a mattress
;for a long time for the elderly get a massage ,a day for the elderly is swabbed
up ;if the elderly difficult defecation ,with a round wooden sticks to the
auxiliary ,or even by hand .
.It is the county 63 farmers take care of paralyzed mother Li Qingping daily .In order to take good care of his mother ,he even turned off its own paper mill ,quit alcohol .Imperceptibly ,Li Qingping has been in the mother for 15 years .
In his care, the elderly not only never had bedsore ,and the room can a smell .Recently, the reporter walked into the town of East County business Bao Village ,and son Li Qingping had a talk .
The ill-fated young widowed mother older paralysis on May 1st morning ,while the people in various ways to celebrate the holiday ,Li Qingping still as usual waiting for paralysis in the bed of the old mother .
He first used his hands with great care to the elderly head straight ,then use the small spoon mouth to mouth to feed water ,and still with a towel wipe slobber old mouth .Li Qingping this year 64 years old ,is the city of Handan County East Village farmers .
In his mind, the mother is a very virtuous ,good woman ,but life is ill-fated ,almost did not enjoy a day .When he was 10 years old ,his father died of liver disease ,only 29 years old mother raising two children alone shoulder the burden .
In order to bring home the bacon ,mother in the heavy working in the fields ,even at night flower ,spinning weaving .Because the dot does not have oil ,she is on a stick of incense ,incense head with the weak light of the spinning ,weaving flower .
The last century sixty or seventy ,the home of not enough food to eat, can occasionally eat noodles .My mother always noodles all pick for Li Qingping and sister ,her own soup cooked with vegetables to eat .
Children of the poor early masters .Under the influence of her mother ,Li Qingping grew up, not only willing to endure hardship ,and aggressive, gradually became the able person .In 1994, he loans outright village paper mill ,a year can gain profit several yuan .
The days of poverty finally passed, one family full of joy, life is very prosperous .Li Qing plain that happiness will always continue, hard most of his mother ,can enjoy a happy life .
However ,on February 29, 1996, Li Qingping suddenly due to a cerebral hemorrhage fell to the ground ,become unconscious .After the hospital rescue, old man is saved, but left hemiplegia ,life can not take care of themselves .
This year, Li Qingping is 48 years old ,his mother at the age of 68 .Filial son off factory rare keep the bed mother paralyzed in bed ,paper mill and need to take care of .Is your home ,or continue to operate a factory ?Li Qingping hearts full of contradictions .
Mother in this life is not easy ,who brought us up ,have suffered .Because of the fear of children suffer ,her life would not remarry ,the bitter ,only we do children know .Now ,mother paralyzed, need child care ,I will never let the old man by half a grievance .
Therefore ,Li Qingping decided to shut down the factory ,to stay at home to care for the old .His idea is very simple , the mother is more important than money .It has its own experience ,later the old man was well ,can also launch a new enterprise .
For the convenience of taking care of his mother, Li Qingping and his wife ,in their double bed with a single bed ,and the old man carried into his own room .After that, they started in 3 individuals with eat to live life .
Early in the morning to get up ,Li Qingping cook ,wash ,then to the old hair ,feed ,feed water .Because of concerns about the old man long time no exercise will shrink ,Li Qingping every half hour would help him turn over ;because the old man lost language ability, and incontinence, he often need to view old bedding ,average every hour to replace a mattress ;because the elderly often defecate difficult phenomenon he used the self-made ,round stick ,or even by hand .
.In addition ,Li Qingping every day for the elderly do two massage ,a body scrub .There have also been suggested Li Qingping to the mother line catheter inserted ,or to change the total mattress ,he worried about his mother suffer ,resolutely refused to use his perennial ,would rather sleep on a good night .
; ; ; ; ; ; ;as summer goes and winter comes ,flowers wither ,imperceptibly ,Li Qingping has been in the mother for 15 years .In his care, the old man is always clean ,not only never had bedsore ,and the room can a smell .
Li Qingping say ,15 years, the father to take care of my grandmother ,to give up the original good business ,quit alcohol ,even have the Spring Festival also did not have relatives string door .
He will not even bother about things outside ,almost on the retire life .Filial heart only I understand the needs of mothers in most families, because more women than men but cautious ,gentle ,better at doing housework ,so take care of the old ,patient burden borne by women ,and more .
But ,why Li Qingping must personally take care of the old ,but not a nanny ,or let her children ,and to serve the elderly ? I was also hoping to have someone to take care of my mother ,but I really upset .
The old man fatigue lifetime ,now paralyzed in bed ,too painful . A mention of childhood ,Li Qingping eyes began to red : I don the old man by any crime ,only I can know the mother heart what most in need ! Li Qingping thinks ,take care of a no language expression ability in aged paralytic ,like cooking ,sweeping the floor so simple .
Every time you want to feed the how much water ,what time to start feeding, every massage which parts need more ,strength and so on, other people are very hard to know clearly .According to a villager, Li Qingping and her mother really seems to have a telepathic ,as long as the old man himself ,he will know what you want .
But if any other man to serve ,twisting the head do not eat or drink .Because of this ,Li Qingping even his wife and sister is not trust ,every day even if zaikuzailei ,also want to personally accompany mother left .
As the saying goes ,a bed and no filial .Can Li Qingping to look after the paralyzed mother ,took off his paper mill ,also no longer looking for any business ,his heart is really no regrets ?Lee is one of the best of the rich Jiaceng village ,but now only by children cultivate land to subsistence ,Li Qingping even had to quit alcohol ,he really does not feel bitter ?To this, Li Qingping thought for a long time : I was a very ambitious person ,had dreams of becoming a famous entrepreneur .
But I never thought ,old mother suddenly paralyzed in bed ,but did not expect this lie is 15 years .Perhaps this is the fate .Perhaps the mother had not been free one day, God that she was too tired ,let her have a good rest .
Li Qingping said ,with the passage of time ,he had been accustomed to everything in sight ,not only did not feel tired ,but think it is a blessing .Now ,his greatest desire is to create a miracle :allow mothers to live to the age of 100 .
At the same time ,Li Qingping also particularly grateful for his wife and children .Because they have emotional support and economic aid ,Li Qingping can put all our energy on the mother, not for meals and daily expenses .
Li Qingping said ,long-term since ,because a one-track mind to take care of the old ,two ears do not hear out of the window ,his mind has become very flat and .Perhaps it is for this reason that ,although he was already 63 years old ,the body has never had any trouble .
The filial piety two characters, Li Qingping has his own simple to understand : it is the parents work hard for a lifetime is not easy, when they have difficulties, children must have the courage to take responsibility ,do not let the elderly suffer .
.It is the county 63 farmers take care of paralyzed mother Li Qingping daily .In order to take good care of his mother ,he even turned off its own paper mill ,quit alcohol .Imperceptibly ,Li Qingping has been in the mother for 15 years .
In his care, the elderly not only never had bedsore ,and the room can a smell .Recently, the reporter walked into the town of East County business Bao Village ,and son Li Qingping had a talk .
The ill-fated young widowed mother older paralysis on May 1st morning ,while the people in various ways to celebrate the holiday ,Li Qingping still as usual waiting for paralysis in the bed of the old mother .
He first used his hands with great care to the elderly head straight ,then use the small spoon mouth to mouth to feed water ,and still with a towel wipe slobber old mouth .Li Qingping this year 64 years old ,is the city of Handan County East Village farmers .
In his mind, the mother is a very virtuous ,good woman ,but life is ill-fated ,almost did not enjoy a day .When he was 10 years old ,his father died of liver disease ,only 29 years old mother raising two children alone shoulder the burden .
In order to bring home the bacon ,mother in the heavy working in the fields ,even at night flower ,spinning weaving .Because the dot does not have oil ,she is on a stick of incense ,incense head with the weak light of the spinning ,weaving flower .
The last century sixty or seventy ,the home of not enough food to eat, can occasionally eat noodles .My mother always noodles all pick for Li Qingping and sister ,her own soup cooked with vegetables to eat .
Children of the poor early masters .Under the influence of her mother ,Li Qingping grew up, not only willing to endure hardship ,and aggressive, gradually became the able person .In 1994, he loans outright village paper mill ,a year can gain profit several yuan .
The days of poverty finally passed, one family full of joy, life is very prosperous .Li Qing plain that happiness will always continue, hard most of his mother ,can enjoy a happy life .
However ,on February 29, 1996, Li Qingping suddenly due to a cerebral hemorrhage fell to the ground ,become unconscious .After the hospital rescue, old man is saved, but left hemiplegia ,life can not take care of themselves .
This year, Li Qingping is 48 years old ,his mother at the age of 68 .Filial son off factory rare keep the bed mother paralyzed in bed ,paper mill and need to take care of .Is your home ,or continue to operate a factory ?Li Qingping hearts full of contradictions .
Mother in this life is not easy ,who brought us up ,have suffered .Because of the fear of children suffer ,her life would not remarry ,the bitter ,only we do children know .Now ,mother paralyzed, need child care ,I will never let the old man by half a grievance .
Therefore ,Li Qingping decided to shut down the factory ,to stay at home to care for the old .His idea is very simple , the mother is more important than money .It has its own experience ,later the old man was well ,can also launch a new enterprise .
For the convenience of taking care of his mother, Li Qingping and his wife ,in their double bed with a single bed ,and the old man carried into his own room .After that, they started in 3 individuals with eat to live life .
Early in the morning to get up ,Li Qingping cook ,wash ,then to the old hair ,feed ,feed water .Because of concerns about the old man long time no exercise will shrink ,Li Qingping every half hour would help him turn over ;because the old man lost language ability, and incontinence, he often need to view old bedding ,average every hour to replace a mattress ;because the elderly often defecate difficult phenomenon he used the self-made ,round stick ,or even by hand .
.In addition ,Li Qingping every day for the elderly do two massage ,a body scrub .There have also been suggested Li Qingping to the mother line catheter inserted ,or to change the total mattress ,he worried about his mother suffer ,resolutely refused to use his perennial ,would rather sleep on a good night .
; ; ; ; ; ; ;as summer goes and winter comes ,flowers wither ,imperceptibly ,Li Qingping has been in the mother for 15 years .In his care, the old man is always clean ,not only never had bedsore ,and the room can a smell .
Li Qingping say ,15 years, the father to take care of my grandmother ,to give up the original good business ,quit alcohol ,even have the Spring Festival also did not have relatives string door .
He will not even bother about things outside ,almost on the retire life .Filial heart only I understand the needs of mothers in most families, because more women than men but cautious ,gentle ,better at doing housework ,so take care of the old ,patient burden borne by women ,and more .
But ,why Li Qingping must personally take care of the old ,but not a nanny ,or let her children ,and to serve the elderly ? I was also hoping to have someone to take care of my mother ,but I really upset .
The old man fatigue lifetime ,now paralyzed in bed ,too painful . A mention of childhood ,Li Qingping eyes began to red : I don the old man by any crime ,only I can know the mother heart what most in need ! Li Qingping thinks ,take care of a no language expression ability in aged paralytic ,like cooking ,sweeping the floor so simple .
Every time you want to feed the how much water ,what time to start feeding, every massage which parts need more ,strength and so on, other people are very hard to know clearly .According to a villager, Li Qingping and her mother really seems to have a telepathic ,as long as the old man himself ,he will know what you want .
But if any other man to serve ,twisting the head do not eat or drink .Because of this ,Li Qingping even his wife and sister is not trust ,every day even if zaikuzailei ,also want to personally accompany mother left .
As the saying goes ,a bed and no filial .Can Li Qingping to look after the paralyzed mother ,took off his paper mill ,also no longer looking for any business ,his heart is really no regrets ?Lee is one of the best of the rich Jiaceng village ,but now only by children cultivate land to subsistence ,Li Qingping even had to quit alcohol ,he really does not feel bitter ?To this, Li Qingping thought for a long time : I was a very ambitious person ,had dreams of becoming a famous entrepreneur .
But I never thought ,old mother suddenly paralyzed in bed ,but did not expect this lie is 15 years .Perhaps this is the fate .Perhaps the mother had not been free one day, God that she was too tired ,let her have a good rest .
Li Qingping said ,with the passage of time ,he had been accustomed to everything in sight ,not only did not feel tired ,but think it is a blessing .Now ,his greatest desire is to create a miracle :allow mothers to live to the age of 100 .
At the same time ,Li Qingping also particularly grateful for his wife and children .Because they have emotional support and economic aid ,Li Qingping can put all our energy on the mother, not for meals and daily expenses .
Li Qingping said ,long-term since ,because a one-track mind to take care of the old ,two ears do not hear out of the window ,his mind has become very flat and .Perhaps it is for this reason that ,although he was already 63 years old ,the body has never had any trouble .
The filial piety two characters, Li Qingping has his own simple to understand : it is the parents work hard for a lifetime is not easy, when they have difficulties, children must have the courage to take responsibility ,do not let the elderly suffer .
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